the passport thing is so screwy.. why can't they just give you one and a sofa card... the military is mind set on doing things the hard way.
I as well have answered in spanish, it' drives my hubby crazy he will till me bitte and my response, automatically, is de nada, lol told a polish man who didn't speak english or german yesterday gracias my mind get's so overwhelmed sometimes I just spit something out, lol I don't get embarrassed they wouldn't understand my english either, lol I think theirs is a bit more proper then mine and you throw in an accent and they get really confused, I have to talk real slow and enunciate, lol.
As for coming over here, your hubby will get 10 days TDY when he gets here to get you and himself settled, to find a house and such, as long as he is married he qualifies for off post housing, we have no kids and we live off post and a ton of people have to live off post, at least temporarily, because of the waiting list and such. The government will rush your passport if you have an itenerary that is less than 2 weeks from departure to ensure you get it before your plane leaves and I am not sure if they will rush it if you have orders it would be worth it to ask as they can overnight it and such, be worth a try! good luck!